Stages of the session may vary from client to client and from session to session. Stages may not be consecutive and a client can start and finish the session at any stage:

Establishing connection and trust:

  • Consultation time, explaining the features and benefits of HEART-MINDful Tantric sessions, including possible reactions after the session. The practitioner will go through your consent form with you. 
  • Taking a shower to wash off negative emotions and to relax the body (towels and sarong are provided).

Tantric connection rituals:

Exploring tantric rituals to establish trust, connection and unconditional love with your practitioner, through eye gazing and giving and receiving touch. Other rituals may be added in the later sessions.


Receiving HEART-MINDful Tantric bodywork using oil massage on a naked body for the purposes of emotional detox, in a safe and sacred healing space. This may include prostate / lingham (penis) massage, if consent is given in advance.

We use three key to help release stagnant emotions – breathwork, sound and body movement. As you relax your body and mind, you may go into a deep trance-like-state, which is when healing begins and emotions start flowing.

Men may release emotions that were held for many years during and after the prostate and lingham massages.

The lingham massage will also help you to deeply connect with your masculine aspect to fully embrace your sexuality. We work together to sublimate sexual / Yang energy to all parts of the body. The HEART-MINDful lingham healing work can also help heal past traumas in this area and help you develop deeper consciousness and the Shiva within you. Our work is based on supporting men to separate orgasm and ejaculation. The sessions do not include ejaculation.